Saturday 18 April 2020

My day.

Because of having severe COPD I have been avoiding crowds, people, shops, cafes etc so as not to pick up a chest infection which further damages my lungs, for far longer than this virus has been around.  

But it is important to exercise.  Good for the lungs and my bone density.  It is not me being selfish.  If I do not exercise my diseases will worsen and I will be in hospital over burdening the NHS.  Exercise is also good for my mental health.

To accuse me of being selfish etc is cruel.  I did not choose this disease.  I cannot inflict it on anyone else.  It limits my life big time.  So I do my bit to lessen my demands on the NHS. Why do people have a problem with that?  Not just now but always as much as I can.

So I went to the Prom.  Late in the day when there are very few people around.  I use oxygen when exercising.  Otherwise the exercise puts a strain on my heart.  Boy is that selfish!

I do not enjoy defending myself, nor should I have to.

For those who like to see what I see - here are my photographs.







I hope the commentator does not get any pleasure from my responding to them as its pity I feel for them.  What a way to get satisfaction.




18 comments:

Carolyn said...

Jill, as always lovely pictures, well done for keeping on keeping on. It’s damned hard work, I too am walking everyday for my physical and mental health.

Kathy said...

I am so very sorry that you have this condition, a very dear friend of mine is suffering with the same as well. I admire your determination to fight this disease, of course you should get fresh air and as much exercise as you are able to do. Keep on doing it, and supplying us with the fantastic photo's of your seaside, and paintings.

Take care & stay safe. Read your blog regularly, but rarely comment, but felt I must this time to support you.

Gail, northern California said...

Ignore it, Jill. You don't owe anyone an explanation.

Mary Bolton said...

I really enjoy your photos of the ocean. Please don't let the ignorant
trolls get you down.

Lynda said...

Ignore the bastards...you NEED to be out. I have a friend with osteoporosis and a walking frame who hasn’t left the house in 4 months..she claims she can’t exercise ( not true..she lives on a farm and could even drive around on a golf cart if she went out).
Glad to hear you’re persevering! Keep it up!

Maria said...

Thank you for your beautiful pictures.

Barbara Smith said...

You must exercise. Keep up the good work. Breathing is important!!!!!

Amanda said...

You're dong better than me. I've been staying in and can really tell the difference just in little things like when I do household chores. I need to take inspiration from you and go walking down to get some conditioning back.

Terra said...

Please ignore the ignorant and keep on keeping on, as the saying goes. You need to exercise and you are doing that, plus sharing your photos and paintings here. Be well.

Jules said...

I always love to see your photographs, especially as I can't get to the sea just now.
Stay well. X

mamasmercantile said...

You don't owe anyone an explanation. hat a beautiful stroll you took us on it was a joy to see. Take care and stay safe.

my alabama bears home said...

I don't believe getting out in nature where one can exercise is selfish. It is certainly beneficial to your health and all of us need exercise if at all possible. We walk at least 4 times a week, sometimes as many as 6 times if the weather permits. I see many more people out walking, riding bikes, etc, than before the pandemic. If we are social distancing, what is the problem? We stop and talk with neighbors if they are out, while always keeping our distance. Bravo! Keep doing what you're doing.
Mama Bear

Lynn Marie said...

I so enjoy hearing about your day, every day. Thank you.

Best Bun said...

I am not a troll.

I live way across the ocean in a small metropolitan area. Grew up near the Atlantic coast and remember fondly the power and beauty of the seaside.

It is hard to imagine how other people live. But this old lady can only sit in awe at your courage and grace.

As DH taught me years ago, never let anybody define your life.


Best wishes from Best Bun.

Elaine said...

You can just delete comments you don't like. It's your blog, do what makes you happy. I love your blog and all your pictures. Thanks.

Patricia in southern Minnesota said...

Don't even try to reason with these people. They have no intention of listening to or even considering the validity of your explanations. You have given a reasonable explanation for your actions. Now delete them as fast as you can. They will try their best to be mean and to hurt you. Delete. Delete. Delete.

Amy said...

Jill, I love your photos and also your paintings. You show much courage against your disease and I hope you keep on keeping on!

Karla said...

Oh, the damned trolls. I confess it's what is keeping me from starting a blog. Perhaps I am too tender-hearted. I love your blog, Jill. You're my idol, that you accept you have this disease yet refuse to be defined by it! You push yourself because you know it's good for you, and you enjoy nature so much as it's a balm for the soul. I am sending you many wishes for continued improving health, wishes that the trolls go to their dark and dank subterranean caverns to mutter on to themselves and leave others alone, and wishes that the DP feels better quickly! With love from Illinois!